Like many New Yorkers, Tinder was one of the apps that (shamefully) worked its way into regular use on my phone.While I was willing to believe that it would be possible for me to find someone, I never wasted a single second considering Tinder would present me with the potential next rung on the ladder of career advancement.The unique feature that this Category of Player offers is that it’s very likely that by the time your time together is done, you will be a better woman than before you had met him. Enjoy it while it lasts and when it ends; be happy that you got to experience it.WARNING: Remember, this guy makes EVERY WOMAN he’s with feel INCREDIBLE! He won’t steal your heart like the other Players, but you WILL want to GIVE it to him. There are three main types of “Good Players” which we will explore in this series of blogs.While the BAD Players can break your heart, frustrate you and waste your time, the UGLY Players will crush your self-esteem, destroy your life, destroy your dreams, and in some cases, will kill you.There is one main type of “Bad Players” which we will explore in this series of blogs In the next blog post on Players, we will dive into the Good Players, their types, how to spot them and how to protect yourself.
At the peak of my online dating career I would try almost any app or service that existed, from the traditional to the questionable algorithms of Coffee Meets Bagel.In this series of blogs excerpted from “Player Proof: The Uncensored Dating Guide For Women, Derek is going to explain some of the Players we need to watch out for.PART 1: Players can be broken down into three major categories.You won’t see them coming unless you know what to look for.Turn your back on one of them for too long and you might find him in bed with your best friend.