Some women will think of the writer of the profiles below as weird, but…ideally you shouldn’t be interested in “most” women anyway, but you should be targeting those women with your profile that you believe you will get along and will have a connection – whether you are looking for a short-term dating, a lifetime partnership or anything in between: “About Me: I would hate to bore you by telling you how wonderful I am by attaching to my name a bunch of flattering adjectives.Friends don't introduce you, and the two or three single guys you will happen across in everyday situations are very unlikely to float your boat.In three years, not one friend introduced me to anyone.So, lets look at a few typical examples of bad profiles: “I am not good at writing about myself, but my friends say that I am intelligent, professional, educated and ambitious. I am looking to a meet an intelligent, beautiful woman for dating and relationship.” – at first, this looks like a well-written profile by a guy who seems to have head on his shoulders. There is nothing “catchy” about this profile – there is nothing that would compel a reader to stop and respond to it.However, it has one major flaw that will make many women skip over it. Lets look at another bad profile: “I went to school in the east coast, but now I work for a major software company where I work up the corporate ladder. I love hiking, watching baseball, and bbq on weekends.” – the writer must be reminded that this is a dating profile – not a resume or a sales presentation in front of his human resources department. as a rule, you should never start your profile by talking about school or work, as it’s not interesting and not really relevant to what you should be trying to achieve – to catch a woman’s attention.” “I love to have fun, party, dance, and drink of my buddies.
There is something about the nighttime that I find magic, if you will, which keeps me up working or hanging out aimlessly. I have little patience for flakes and fake people – those who smile while being angry on the inside, as I never know what they keep up their sleeve. About You: You are curious about the world around you.
So, since real life is not going to deliver, embrace the web, brace yourself and get on with it. You have a memory of dating that is of a more attractive, younger you and more attractive, younger dates. Read all our dating articles at High50: Datings Tips For Men - By A Man Who Was Suddenly Single After 28 Years He's Just Not That into You: When Internet Dates Go Wrong - And How To Deal With It Emotional Baggage: Post-Divorce, Can There Be A Happy Ever After?
So seeing and meeting people in their 50s is something of a shock. Earlier on Huff/Post50: On Instagram (i Phone and Android, free), users take photos from their daily lives and have the option to apply a variety of filters to enhance or touch-up their images.
And scrolling through all these "un-suitables" can get depressing. So think of all possible things suggested by your chosen name before deciding. As a woman, you have to lie about your age because most men are looking for younger women. I'd recommend telling them the truth if the relationship develops, in case you end up with a second 50th birthday, like one woman I know. I didn't consider any man who hadn't bothered to fill out his profile properly as it suggested he wasn't that serious about dating. A profile full of slang, typos and bad grammar is off-putting. I can't see that there are many people out there for whom it would add allure, so it's best to take the trouble over it. How you write is as critical as what you say about yourself because it is more revealing about your personality. Ask someone who has dated online and knows the game - preferably of the opposite sex - to check your profile. BEST FOR: The application is best for those wanting to share the daily images of their lives.
You have to be prepared to spend time and effort on it. So to get a man of the age you want interested, I think it's worth lying. It all came out on the night and her chap, who had thrown the party for her, dumped her. And men, the ladies might be a little older than they claim, so be prepared! I think a self-deprecating sense of humor was the biggest thing I found attractive in a man's profile. As Instagram has grown in popularity, many users can share their photos on multiple social networks.