Are you willing, or wanting to, include your spouse in the practice of your faith?
What have you learned from your parents that you are proud of? What mistakes did your parents make that you have decided not to repeat? What do you picture in your mind when you think if a family of your own? What traits do you have that will make you a good daughter or son-in-law, sister or brother-in-law, wife, husband, mother or father?
What type of social life do you want after you are married?
How often do you plan events or activities just for the fun of it? Do you currently spend enough time on fun and enjoyment? What types of activities could the two of you do together that would be fun? Are there things or people in your lives that diminish your level of fun or enjoyment? This means that both partners will change throughout a marriage.
What kinds of parenting skills did you learn from your parents? Are the skills you learned from your parents adequate for raising children now? How can you learn to be the best parent you can be?
What types (if any) of birth control should we use?
What are the types of things you do with these friends?
What are the characteristics you look for in a friend?