And there is not need to insult anyone when you reject them.Usually, the safest excuse is to say that the horoscopes don't match.So, what is the protocol when you meet someone through a more formal medium?Your attitude to the process could make it at least a painless, if not enjoyable process.
Arranged marriages are a legit way to meet people, and whether you enter the market willingly or grudgingly, you will at least meet people who are serious about commitment.Karishma says, "People conduct discreet inquiries from at least four-five sources when they zero in on a bride/ groom.I caution them to not barge in at their workplaces or randomly call up colleagues. I don't give away the names of the companies where the candidates are working. Normally, they just figure out a friend or relative who knows someone in the marriage prospect's company to make discreet inquiries."Go through the process thoughtfully, and hopefully you'll make an informed decision that will change your life beautifully.Pay them the respect of giving them your full attention even if you don't like them.Or just go home and tell your parents it isn't working." Most parents would like you to make up your mind after about three meetings and they don't like their daughters meeting a guy ten times before he rejects her, Karishma observes.